well. that's a start. he's got a job waiting tables in los gatos during the day. we're strapped for money. big time. this is a first for us. it took him a week to nail this down and i hope that it's only temporary. for the love of god, he has a bachelor's degree but he really doesn't want to work. i have a ton to say but no real energy to say it. i've had very little help from r this week and am beat. tomorrow is a bob day so that's good.