i got a letter from my lawyer yesterday that was cc'd to bk and our mediator stating that we're going in front of the commissioner to have child support established and that we appreciate all of the mediator's hard work. i assume that bk hasn't gotten the letter yet as i haven't gotten a nasty phone call. i'm confused by some of the jargon in the letter and i have left a couple of messages for my lawyer. this seems like it is never ever going to end...