the one about the girl that's not miss bk

on monday bk brought his girlfriend (of approximately six months) over to meet me and the kids. she seemed friendly enough and wasn't high maintenance (please refer to that crazy bitch from before) or standoffish with me or d at all. miss p and lorenzo didn't have much to say about her except that she was nice to them. she's 24, mom to a four year old girl, and lives a few hours away. her ex shares custody with her. aside from that i really know nothing about her.

bk asked me today what i thought of her and i told him that i was impressed with her but that honestly just about anyone aside from miss bk was fine by me. i mentioned that i view the fact that she's a mother as a plus. if she knows anything at all she won't step on my toes and she won't try and spoil my kids to impress bk. i sense that she knows this. i asked him if either of them plans on moving to be closer to each other. sounds like a no (another good sign that she isn't willing to move herself and her child away from her family and the daughter's father). ten minutes passed and bk asked how long d and i waited to move in together. 'a year.' i'm not sure what good advice he was looking for but i told him not to be a fool and rush into something like he did with miss bk. 'that was different.' yeah, you were cheating on me and your two kids dumb ass.

but anyway, i like her. not sure what she sees in him though. hazah!