thankfully i haven't exploded like a meat stuffed piñata

so you may have noticed that there hasn't been much chatter regarding bk lately. honestly, we've only been seeing him once a week (on mondays, some saturdays) and there hasn't been much to say. things have been kind and mellow; i gave him and miss bk vegan chocolate-dipped marshmallows. he was very complimentary and said they'd like to buy some. i asked him to get the kid sweat outfits (for the kid's halloween costumes) and he did, promptly and without complaint. i typed of the agreement ($$$) and he passed it on to the lawyer. i'm expecting the first child support payment on november 15th. things like that... as for the move to LA: he seems fairly sure that they WILL be moving in 12-24 months, possibly sooner. miss bk is in fashion design school and apparently the four year program that she wants is down there. this is helped along by the fact that his job wantes him to move down there anyway. i'm not feeling much about it i guess. he's so out of the daily loop that i suspect that not much will change. it'll be the initial change that'll be hard but even that blow will be softened by d being here. it won't be the same as it was two (!) years ago.

bb, gotta put the kids to bed.