okay, quick updateyness...
so that day when jd and d and i went into that moroccan restaurant that was playing my dad's music...we actually followed through. after a little back and forth b and i developed a moroccan-spiced truffle and a bitter orange truffle. damn they're difficult to form but they are SO good. i'll take some pictures. anyway, the owner of the restaurant loved them and is going to try them in the restaurant. i made him two pounds that b is dropping off this afternoon so we'll see how they do. we're pretty excited.
not much to report on the bk front. i asked him what is going on with the dcss case and he said he's just waiting to hear from his lawyer. in other words nothing is happening. i told him that my lawyer is preparing documents to get us in front of the dcss commissioner, so please for the love of god, HURRY UP. still no child support and sd, all that stuff about quitting the jobs as a big plan...maybe you were "smart" enough to do that but this is much more simple, i guarantee it. there is no elaborate plan to use that case you cited. if you look back at the past 18 months you'll notice he's been holding on by the skin of his teeth and this is nothing more than a stalling tactic of a genuinely panicked man. m'kay?
i'm still graaaading. just about to start a batch of freshman odyssey papers. *joy*
i have a mammogram today. *joy*
and finally, after trying not to for a month (more on that in a sec) i finally broke last night and told d that i love him. actually i stumbled around a bit and said, i like you. i mean, i think i love you. "you think?" no, i mean, i DO love you. "i love you too." do you really? "yeah, geesh, i've been waiting for you to say it." me too! i didn't want to say it first, but i almost said it last night. "me too." we couldn't stop grinning and it was lovely. as for that first part...i have this fear of dragging another man (silently) kicking and screaming through 'i love you's' and living together and half-assed proposals and outwardly beautiful matrimony and children only to be bitch-slapped 10 years later. so i thought this time i would wait it out and make him say it first. i tried really hard, honest. but it's been eating away at me for a few weeks and finally i just burst out with it. and i'm so glad i did. :)
so that day when jd and d and i went into that moroccan restaurant that was playing my dad's music...we actually followed through. after a little back and forth b and i developed a moroccan-spiced truffle and a bitter orange truffle. damn they're difficult to form but they are SO good. i'll take some pictures. anyway, the owner of the restaurant loved them and is going to try them in the restaurant. i made him two pounds that b is dropping off this afternoon so we'll see how they do. we're pretty excited.
not much to report on the bk front. i asked him what is going on with the dcss case and he said he's just waiting to hear from his lawyer. in other words nothing is happening. i told him that my lawyer is preparing documents to get us in front of the dcss commissioner, so please for the love of god, HURRY UP. still no child support and sd, all that stuff about quitting the jobs as a big plan...maybe you were "smart" enough to do that but this is much more simple, i guarantee it. there is no elaborate plan to use that case you cited. if you look back at the past 18 months you'll notice he's been holding on by the skin of his teeth and this is nothing more than a stalling tactic of a genuinely panicked man. m'kay?
i'm still graaaading. just about to start a batch of freshman odyssey papers. *joy*
i have a mammogram today. *joy*
and finally, after trying not to for a month (more on that in a sec) i finally broke last night and told d that i love him. actually i stumbled around a bit and said, i like you. i mean, i think i love you. "you think?" no, i mean, i DO love you. "i love you too." do you really? "yeah, geesh, i've been waiting for you to say it." me too! i didn't want to say it first, but i almost said it last night. "me too." we couldn't stop grinning and it was lovely. as for that first part...i have this fear of dragging another man (silently) kicking and screaming through 'i love you's' and living together and half-assed proposals and outwardly beautiful matrimony and children only to be bitch-slapped 10 years later. so i thought this time i would wait it out and make him say it first. i tried really hard, honest. but it's been eating away at me for a few weeks and finally i just burst out with it. and i'm so glad i did. :)