so i went over to the lawyer's (wh) office on thursday and dropped off the 130 papers that i copied the other day. he was in court but i met a woman who was pissed because her stbx retained wh (my lawyer, focus people) before she could. i also spent some time with nicole, his paralegal. she said the ammount of monthly support i'm requesting is WAY low. she laughed when she saw by "ideal" monthly expense report (meaning how it would look if i started paying for my own health insurance, cell phone, food, clothes, etc.). she said that most of their other expense reports she's seen have a monthly total of more than my YEARLY total (like more than $40k a month!!!). wh has already been in touch with dcss and we're apparently filing a motion. more on that when i hear more.