d and i are going out on a preemtive celebratory date tonight (celebrating that the papers will be signed tomorrow and i'll be very close to divorced). japantown, baby. i haven't mentioned much about d because well, he's really spectacular in his simplicity and there isn't a ton to say. he makes me feel good, he is absofuckingtastic with my kids (we had a sleep over with all three and instead of just saying 'i love you' to d2 he said 'i love you guys' to mine and his. just like it was no big thing. *swoon*), he's supportive but not condescending, and i feel generally at peace when i'm with him. and, we have chemistry, which as it turns out, is something new to me. more on that when the kids head out (fingers crossed that bk doesn't cancel).