to answer the question

in the comments section of the last post regarding bob's fees: we get no help from insurance with those appointments. bob charges $100/hour (a real 60 minute hour)which means we spend $200 a week just to see bob. parker sees ina once (sometimes twice a week) at the rate of $60/45 minutes, half her usual fee. my therapist charges me $60/45 minutes and her usual rate is around $200/45 minutes. therefore we spend at least $1000/month on therapy if not significantly more. i should get some money back from parker's appointments but... OH.MY.GOD.