sleepy in seattle

so we spent two wonderful days visiting with linda and charlie in seattle in their new (really cool) condo. we also got to see erica and denny, the musgrove clan(!), and caleb (r's cousin and bestman) and danielle (his lovely wife). everyone was wonderfully supportive. i was really nervous about how caleb and danielle would treat me but they were just awesome. they agree that r is behaving badly and that he's majorly broken our marriage vows.

speaking of...the last two nights that i've talked to him on the phone he's been a total jerk, very cold. as you all know he's supposed to call to say goodnight to miss p at 7pm. here is a rundown of the nights he's been late calling since p's birthday.

1.13 - 7.38pm
1.14 - 7.15pm
1.18 - 7.08pm
1.21 - 7.17pm "it was really busy here at work."
1.22 - 7.24pm "i lost track of time and forgot. well, i didn't forget."