i text messaged him last night. i told him this was moving way too fast, that we needed to slow things down a bit, that i love him and i'm not giving up hope. no reply. no call from him today. i've tried him twice on his cell phone. no answer. i've left him a message. no call back. his sister called to tell me that she and his mom are coming down to see the kids. we'll see how that goes.