damned if i do, damned if i don't

there are so many things from the last post/comments section that i feel need to be addressed (and trust me, i will address them). in some ways i feel i've been put in a position of defending my choices, my ability to parent my kids, and be a good judge of character and myself. i'm well aware that this likely comes from my own insecurities...superdad notwithstanding. ;) sorry if my life has left anyone empty. i feel quite full up on this overcast memorial day.

a real post to follow.