the dcss case is still open. i have no intention of closing it. i'm calling tomorrow to see if he's been served yet. (i don't think he has been.)
there was a great deal of run around today regarding filing taxes. first he agreed to give me the child tax credit. then he didn't. then he offered 75% of it. when he dropped off the papers for me to review and sign (because it is apparently an EMERGENCY) i noticed that there is a LOAN. in both our names. for me to sign. uh? he's looking to get an ADVANCE on the anticipated tax return. and he snuck the papers in like i wouldn't notice. he seems completely desperate.
he asked me if i think it's fair that he works 70 hours a week and never sees his kids. i said 'in light of all the unfairness we've been through do you think that it's fair that-' and he said 'i didn't ask you to ask me another question i asked for an answer!'
he threatened to quit his job. i pointed out that he's not the first man who has thought to do that. i'm fairly sure that judges are on to that. he threatened to go after 50% custody. i told him i've never prevented him from seeing them. (i should have pointed out that he's missing a whole week of visitation so he can go on a 'business vacation.') then he backed down. then he threatened more. and on and on.
he promised miss p he'd call her and say goodnight since he skipped visitation again tonight. no call.
there was a great deal of run around today regarding filing taxes. first he agreed to give me the child tax credit. then he didn't. then he offered 75% of it. when he dropped off the papers for me to review and sign (because it is apparently an EMERGENCY) i noticed that there is a LOAN. in both our names. for me to sign. uh? he's looking to get an ADVANCE on the anticipated tax return. and he snuck the papers in like i wouldn't notice. he seems completely desperate.
he asked me if i think it's fair that he works 70 hours a week and never sees his kids. i said 'in light of all the unfairness we've been through do you think that it's fair that-' and he said 'i didn't ask you to ask me another question i asked for an answer!'
he threatened to quit his job. i pointed out that he's not the first man who has thought to do that. i'm fairly sure that judges are on to that. he threatened to go after 50% custody. i told him i've never prevented him from seeing them. (i should have pointed out that he's missing a whole week of visitation so he can go on a 'business vacation.') then he backed down. then he threatened more. and on and on.
he promised miss p he'd call her and say goodnight since he skipped visitation again tonight. no call.